The last year of the century has been terribly bewildering. First it was the sight of all those mothers and widows of soldiers killed in Kargil saying how proud they were of their men's martyrdom. Then the fisherwomen of Orissa filled the TV screens, clueless about what they were going to do after the cyclone. And now it is a woman called Charan Shah who burned alive on her husband's funeral pyre in Mahoba.